Spouses are special kind of people. Let’s discuss the popular opinion that the opposites attract.
That is a very bad idea. You will end up in a situation of compromise on most of the things and this will affect your chances of living a rich, authentic life. Compromises are important, but what if you want to achieve your financial freedom and your spouse wants to spend money on everything? There will be conflicts and both parties won’t be satisfied.
Looking at the other perspective, what if you and your spouse have similar goals? Then you will have someone who is a cheerleader for you and you will be a cheerleader for them. This will increase your muscle memories and you both will become better and achieve your goals faster. The best thing is to be surrounded by people with similar values and grow together.