One of the hardest things to do in your life is to talk to your spouse about things you want them to change.
It is normal to look for someone in your life who will complement your skills and provide a value in the relationship.
We all have our blind spots or things we expect from others, which are not necessarily common knowledge.
I am a firm believer in the concept of being in a relationship because you want to grow with the other person. But many people make the mistake of looking for someone, just because the society expects them to do that.
This is unfortunate, but very common.
If you ask me for one relationship advice, this will be it.
Find someone who complements your skills and you are not afraid to have difficult conversations with them.