People are fairly passive. This is related to the law of preserving energy. Making a decision could lead to stress, and stress is uncomfortable. We lose energy when we stress too.
Therefore, many people would rather do nothing, instead of creating a plan on how to spend their time.
Today I had organized board game activity, and it was a hard work.
Planning where to be, inviting people and convincing them to come, and so on.
In the end, the result was an amazing and my friends and I had fabulous times.
The moral of the story is simple, sometimes we need to be proactive, plan activities, take risks to create something magical for us and others.